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My Own Fit - inspiration wanna be
Friend.Lover.Sister and Mom of a baby girl (dog) named Shakira.
I'm not being judgemental/rude or anything else. I'm just really curious. I'm a bigger girl too and I'm scared of someone never loving me because of it. Has Matt ever asked you to change size-wise or commented on the way you are? I'm just so scared :(
Two Things -
1. No. Matt has NEVER asked me to change. Throughout our relationship I’ve been various sizes (as well as pregnant) and I have been very loved throughout. He has never made me feel like less than a lady and in my moments of insecurity has said, ‘I love you as you are, you’re my LouLou’. *Heart melts*. If I said I was going to loose 40lbs Matt would support it. If I said I was happy as I was, he’d be completely fine.
2. Decent men (and women) don’t value your entire worth and attractivity on the circumference of your waist or the number of pounds a scale flashes up. You are SO MUCH more than just your body. People are attracted to things like humour, kindness, confidence, creativity, etc etc. Of course, physical elements are appealing but not the entire package.
Have confidence. It’s very sexy.